The passing of Sherry Bender of Vassar, Michigan has brought profound sadness to all who knew and loved her. Today, we honor the memory of a cherished soul whose presence made the world a gentler, kinder place. Though her time here feels far too short, the love, joy, and grace she shared continue to shine brightly in the hearts of those she leaves behind.
Sherry was someone whose warmth radiated naturally. She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed and valued, whether through her thoughtful words, her comforting presence, or the quiet strength she carried through life’s many moments. To know Sherry was to experience the genuine kindness she so freely gave—a kindness that touched friends, family, and community members in ways that will never be forgotten.
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Her loved ones remember her as a woman of compassion and sincerity. She approached each day with a gentle heart and an unwavering commitment to the people she cared about. In moments of joy, she celebrated wholeheartedly; in times of hardship, she offered support without hesitation. Sherry’s ability to lift others up, to bring calm to difficult situations, and to encourage those she loved was one of her most beautiful gifts.
Beyond her giving spirit, Sherry filled life with warmth, laughter, and moments that now serve as treasured memories. Whether through shared conversations, meaningful gestures, or simple time spent together, she created connections that continue to bring comfort. The impact she made—through love, through kindness, through presence—will remain deeply rooted in the lives she touched.
As her family, friends, and community mourn this immense loss, may they also find strength in the legacy Sherry leaves behind. Her spirit lives on in each act of kindness inspired by her example and in the countless memories that continue to bring light even in sorrow.
To those who loved Sherry, may you feel the support of those around you and find peace in knowing that her love remains ever-present. Though grief may weigh heavy, her memory will forever be a guiding force—reminding us of the power of compassion, the importance of connection, and the lasting beauty of a life lived with heart.
Rest peacefully, Sherry. Your love, your light, and your beautiful spirit will never be forgotten.
Charlotte Hamacher
To my childhood friend Rachel Bender. Also to Rachel’s brothers and Gordon. I am heart broken to hear of your lost. Your mom was part of my life just as much as you were. Your mom is one of kind. I have held on to memories of yourmom. One of my favorite memories of your mom is when you lived in that big house. You and I came down the stairs, singing as loud as we could. We were singing Whitney Houston I Will Always Love You. Your mom asked what we were doing. We said we are being angels. Your mom responded yea with horns. She is a funny, warm loving person. My kids and husband knows that story. A memory of many that I cherish. My heart and love goes to you, Gordon, Rachel, Jason, T.J., and the rest of your family. I love you all. I wish to be there with you. Hugs and love to you. 💔😥😢